Hello my friends, if you have seen that I’m doing a ‘get rid of something each day for 1 year’ challenge -then you are in the right place. These are quick notes to help you along.
Artists: I wouldn’t recommend drawing each piece - the 100 day project is hard enough without making that a thing for a whole year - and it will be even harder to get rid of that stuff! Perhaps if you get rid of a family heirloom or fond childhood thing, you could draw it as a lovely memento, or a photo is a good plan too.
The reason I am doing this?
I like to declutter - I made it a thing for the last 7 years at least…if not more. The thing is, I realised long ago, you are never done - not if you keep buying new things or being given stuff, or move house and need other stuff and not the old stuff. I believe in Feng shui - I don’t practice it religiously, but having moved enough furniture around and having gotten of quite a lot of stuff, I can feel the energy moving differently throughout the house or room
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here are my decluttering rules:
1 thing a day has to go!
1 physical item you no longer want.
I suggest having a box by the front door, or somewhere easy to reach and see on a daily basis. Just a small box which you fill up each week or month, then go to the charity shop, recycling bins, etc.
You can have a box of things to sell if you like - I would suggest making a rule that the box has to be photographed and uploaded weekly or monthly for sale. if it doesn’t sell, or you don’t do the uploading then it goes to the charity shop with the other stuff. I learnt that for myself; holding onto things that I think may bring some money in isn’t worth the space and energy it takes up. Uploading it to eBay, or FB marketplace takes a little time, and I dislike doing that too - so I would rather give it away in most cases - even furniture.
What if I want to throw more than 1 thing away per day?
This is absolutely fine and I encourage it, but - there will be days where it is harder to do this emotionally, and time-wise. I think it is good to have a few things earmarked for the next day or so. Although if you have a few of the same type of thing, it may be silly to stretch it out. ie: 3 matching baubles you no longer like.
Can I change my mind?
Yes - it is why I suggested a box. But f you take something out - you must replace it with something else. And remember it must go at the end of the period - ie 1 month.
Can I throw digital files etc?
Yes - if you really can’t find a physical one. But if it was me, I would delete at least 20-50 per day. That is because digital files (I think) are easier to find, there are lots of them, deleting 50 emails or photos will make a dent, but deleting just one wont.
Be aware of the temptation to fill the space again:
It’s OK to buy a few things if you need them, but watch out for the need to fill the space again - it creeps in and then you’re in the same place. Maybe think to only buy things you really need and like if you can.
If you struggle with getting rid of anything:
Really think about what is stopping you. -what does the item mean to you? Can you get that from another item you are keeping? Try putting it in the box, and you can swap it if you aren’t ready, or try later in the year. Focus on the space it will create.
Can I start at any time?
Yes - in fact don’t the experts say not to do these things in January?! Start any day but try and do it consecutively for a year. - this will really get you think about the things you are keeping in your home and whether you REALLY need it.
What if I go away?
Do the days before you go, or focus on getting rid of digital files while you are away.
Can I share my journey?
Yes, this can help keep you accountable. You could take a photo and add it to your stories on IG, and use the hashtag #clearwithsarah so we can cheer each other along.
OK so that is it I think, feel free to ask questions. I’m not an expert, I just enjoy the process and wonder in an alterntive life I may have been a house clearer!
Be kind to yourself and take the time you need over items that are more difficult.
Sarah x